The term “Chief Bridesmaid” is the title given to a sister or close friend. If the sister, or close friend, is married then the title “Matron of Honor” is used. It is also used if the bride is a widow and/or re-marrying. It is an honour to be asked. Always to prepared, particularly for large weddings, to put time aside to spend with the bride.
As chief bridesmaid you will be called upon to:
Prior to the wedding:
– arrange pre-wedding activities with the bride and groom to introduce the guests to each other
– arrange the “Hens” night
– look after all the other bridesmaids, flower girls and pageboys
– assist the bride to choose her wedding dress
– discuss the bridesmaid’s dress(s), especially if being made, and clarify who is paying
– attend dress fittings
– attend any wedding rehearsals
– collect any hired clothing and accessories
On the wedding day:
– ensure the bouquets are ready for the bride and bridal party
– have your hair and make-up done, and dress
– assist the bride with her hair, make-up and dress
– help the bridal party and give them their final instructions
– have pre-wedding photographs at home
– leave for the wedding ceremony 10 minutes prior to the bride
At the ceremony:
– arrange the bride’s dress, veil and train
– have final pre-wedding photographs outside the ceremony’s venue
– follow the bride and father up the aisle
– hold the bride’s bouquet during the wedding ceremony
– witness the signing of the register, if required
– follow the bride and groom down the aisle accompanied by the best man
– ensure junior bridesmaids, flower girl, pageboy, are return to their parents/guardians
– touch up the bride’s make-up for further photographs
– depart for the wedding reception
At the wedding reception:
– stand in the receiving line and greet the guests
– help display and record gifts given to the bride and groom
– distribute slices of wedding cake to guests
– have the first dance, after the bride and groom, with the best man
– help the bride change into her “going away” outfit
– take care of the bride’s dress and accessories if required